I couldn’t tell you how many times I’ve wanted to just say you know what F#!k Love, I don’t have enough fingers. It sucks to go through heartbreak, the stress, the infidelity, mental abuse, physical abuse you name it. But let me tell you why you shouldn’t give up on love.
Love makes the world go round. Yes I said it. Not fame, not fortune but love. Some of the most famous and richest people in the world are committing suicide because of mental health issues which probably could have been prevented with some love and attention. Most of these people are lonely. Most of them just needed someone to talk to, someone to be there. As much as i’d wish for everyone to have that fairy tale love most of us have to kiss many frogs before we meet our prince. As crap as it feels to go through all these frogs you learn many lessons, become stronger, less tolerable of the crap, know what you want and don’t want.
Love is a beautiful thing, there’s nothing more exciting than being with someone that loves you just as much as you love them. No relationship is perfect, every relationship has it’s ups and downs but there’s a big difference between a relationship that’s going through a rough patch and a relationship that is just toxic. Those relationships you need to let go of, well talk about that in another post. However! I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone. True love doesn’t always come easy which is why you cant sit around waiting for love to just come knocking at your door. A little tip for those of you who are waiting, go out and enjoy yourselves ! nothing is worse than manifesting a love that isn’t right for you, trust me I know.
I was so desperate for love that I would put up with any and everything just to have someone there. As I’ve grown out of settling I’ve been in contact with guys that just aren’t worth my time which only means I’m getting closer to the man who is.