What Past Relationships Have Taught Me (Part 1)

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No one is in control of what goes on in your life apart from you. This I found very hard because I was so used to putting others before me. I cared too much and wanted to do everything and anything for him but not myself. It wasn’t until I realised that in order for me to be happy I needed to put my feelings first and look after me, do what I did for others for myself. That is honestly the start to healing from a break up. Continue reading “What Past Relationships Have Taught Me (Part 1)”

Question Of The Week -How Do You Feel About Friends With Benefits?

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Iv’e been going back and forth about this in my head for so long and I wanted to know your thoughts.

Are Friends With Benefits, Beneficial?ย  Continue reading “Question Of The Week -How Do You Feel About Friends With Benefits?”

There’s Nothing Wrong With Wanting Love.

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Aren’t you just sick and tired of hearing the same thing over and over again?

Stay single you’ll be happy.

Single life is the best life.

Being single is drama free.

Stay single and work on yourself.

Continue reading “There’s Nothing Wrong With Wanting Love.”

I Know My Worth (Part 15 Final)

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I promised myself that I was going to stop allowing men to play such a big part in my life. and understand that there’s nothing a man could do for me that I couldn’t do for myself. Literally. I told myself that I was over the fight, over him, yet I was always asking around how he was and if he had moved on. I got upset some days because I hadn’t heard from him. Continue reading “I Know My Worth (Part 15 Final)”

Question Of The Week: Does Social Media Ruin Relationships?

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In my years of bad experiences with relationships I think itโ€™s safe to say that yes social media can play a big part in the dysfunction of modern relationships but only if you let it. I saw a post on Instagram not that long ago and this is what it said.. Continue reading “Question Of The Week: Does Social Media Ruin Relationships?”

He Was No Longer The Guy I Fell In Love With (Part 14 Finale)

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He strangled me and had me up against a wall right outside my front door. He then swung me around like a rag doll and I ended up on the floor. It all happened so fast. Continue reading “He Was No Longer The Guy I Fell In Love With (Part 14 Finale)”

He Put His Hands On Me (Part 13)

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I remember the day he came out, of prison like it was yesterday. A Wednesday morning. I wanted to meet him but couldn’t because he had already arranged for some friends to pick him up. He was released at around 10am and I didn’t hear a word from him until 11pm that night. Continue reading “He Put His Hands On Me (Part 13)”